She’s Not Having a BabyCW: Pregnancy, Miscarriage, Infertility. Please protect your heart if you do not want to read about this subject.Aug 17, 2023Aug 17, 2023
10 Ways I Connect With My Dad, Who Died 10 Years AgoThere we are, ten years ago. Me and Dad, in ash-form. Is this an anniversary of his death? What do they call this? A “Death-day?” If it is…Aug 10, 2022Aug 10, 2022
Published inWrite Like a GirlWill I Ever Belong at the Jersey Shore?“I see very few people who look like me, and very few people see me back.”Jun 9, 2022Jun 9, 2022
Published inThe HavenSauerkrautMy body is not a wonderland, not in a pandemicFeb 17, 20221Feb 17, 20221
Los Angeles NoMadThe bathroom door is the foot of the bed. No, you heard me correctly, it’s not at the foot of the bed, it is the foot of the bed. So we…Dec 12, 2021Dec 12, 2021
Father, Daughter and Holy SpiritMy father went in for a “simple” heart surgery on a Monday. Nothing to worry about. The same heart surgery Bill Clinton once got, from the…Jun 18, 20211Jun 18, 20211
How Animal Crossing Gave Me the Space I NeededWe are two people and a dog, and we live in a two bedroom apartment in Los Angeles. Which is more than fine. But in June 2020, it was not…Feb 10, 2021Feb 10, 2021
Published inWrite Like a GirlThis is What My Eating Disorder Looked LikeIn 2009, I created a personal food blog/podcast called “The Actor’s Diet.” Whenever I told people, they’d automatically snicker, “So what…Jan 3, 2021Jan 3, 2021
Growing up With Asian-American Hair“Oh wow. She looks like one of those Japanese dolls.”Dec 19, 20205Dec 19, 20205
our last weekI’m on one end of the couch, the usual side (the one facing the window where I can stretch my legs out and watch TV if I turn my head to…Jun 25, 2019Jun 25, 2019