10 Ways I Connect With My Dad, Who Died 10 Years Ago

lynn chen
4 min readAug 10, 2022

There we are, ten years ago. Me and Dad, in ash-form. Is this an anniversary of his death? What do they call this? A “Death-day?” If it is the opposite of a “Birthday” then that would make sense. But nothing about death makes sense to me.

For two years straight I was unable to process my emotions, breaking down constantly — if something reminded me of him, I’d cry. If I…

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